Based on a conversation with Braydon Barrett, 32, who relocated to Asia with his family in 2024, only to return to Utah eight months later. The conversation has been edited for clarity and length.
Married life introduced Braydon Barrett to the idea of living abroad, a concept he hadn’t previously entertained. His wife had long dreamed of traveling and residing outside the US, and soon, the idea resonated with him as well. Their discussions spanned years, but the arrival of their son in 2023 prompted them to take the leap.
With his wife a stay-at-home mom and Barrett managing an online fitness coaching business, they had the flexibility to move. Extensive research pointed them to Thailand as a feasible destination, given the visa options available. A 10-day exploratory trip to Thailand helped them decide on Pattaya, close to Bangkok, as their new home.
Provided by Braydon Barrett.
The family didn’t own property in Utah, simplifying their transition. Most possessions were sold, with essentials packed into six suitcases.
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On their son’s first birthday in April 2024, they embarked on their journey. However, upon arrival in Thailand, they encountered visa issues. Barrett had assumed a 90-day stay was possible, but they were only granted 30 days. They had intended to stay in Thailand indefinitely, making the visa mishap particularly stressful.
Efforts to secure a long-term visa proved futile, prompting a move to Malaysia, where they could remain for three months. During this period, Thailand introduced the Destination Thailand Visa, a five-year visa catering to remote workers and digital nomads.
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After applying for the visa in Vietnam, Barrett and his wife were quickly approved, but their son’s application was delayed. As their Vietnam visa expired, they moved towards Manila, receiving their son’s visa approval en route. However, an exhausting night in Manila, coupled with accommodation issues, led to their decision to return to Utah.
Back in Utah, Barrett faced the challenge of managing his US-based business remotely. Early morning and late-night schedules took a toll, and the family’s return was met with mixed emotions. Despite feeling like he’d failed, Barrett acknowledges the experience strengthened his relationship with his wife.
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The couple’s affection for Asia remains unchanged. Barrett appreciated the cultural differences, noting a more relaxed and courteous atmosphere compared to the US. Particularly memorable was the kindness extended to their son, which stood in stark contrast to the often hectic pace of American life.
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Barrett believes social media often paints an unrealistic picture of living abroad, emphasizing that while there are benefits, challenges abound. The family’s love for Thailand persists, with their visas valid for five years, leaving the door open for a possible return.
